You start dating a guy, things go well and then fast forward to three to four years and that’s when it all starts happening. All those things that he used to do that made you fall in love with him in the first place, all gone. From small things to big things, everything about him changes. He drinks every night, you try to accept it. You ask him to go with you to a family dinner, he rejects it. And honestly, it’s not just about the drunken nights, it’s not all about how a girl nags. It’s actually about making the relationship grow. You start dating a sweet funny guy, but after the years you’ve been through, he’s now a completely different person. He changed, slowly morphed into something she doesn’t know anymore. Maybe I would here a: if you really love the person then you have to accept him/her for who he/she is. Granted, all people change and grow. But what if he doesn’t grow at all?